My favorite activities as a sub are as follows:

• Bimbofication
• Bondage (particularly cuffs, rope, tape; while lying or fully or partly suspended)
• Dirty talk
• Dollification
• Electrified paddle
• Embarrassment (Note: This is distinct from humiliation.)
• Fetishism (everything from feet and latex to the more esoteric fetishes like can crushing and balloon popping)
• Games and predicaments
• Impact play (particularly cropping, flogging, paddling, spanking)
• Role play of almost every variety (Examples: age play, kidnapping scenes, interrogation scenes, superhero scenes, taboo; boss/secretary, doctor/patient, exes, maid/employer, neighbors, officer/soldier, police officer/ suspect, student/teacher, spouses)
• Seduction scenes
• Sensation play
• Sploshing/ Wet-and-messy
• Tease and denial/ punishment and reward
• Temperature play (ice and wax)
• Tickle torture
• Violet wand/ neon wand play
• Wax play

Please note that I am emphatically not a masochist. That is, I don’t derive sexual pleasure from physical or emotional pain. Rather, I get off on the psychological aspects of giving up control and pleasing my Dom– which can include taking pain, but if that’s your main interest, we are not a match.

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