My favorite activities as a sub are as follows:
- Bimbofication
- Bondage (particularly cuffs, rope, tape; while lying or fully or partly suspended)
- Dirty talk
- Dollification
- Electrified paddle
- Embarrassment (Note: This is distinct from humiliation.)
- Fetishism (everything from feet and latex to the more esoteric fetishes like can crushing and balloon popping)
- Games and predicaments
- Impact play (particularly cropping, flogging, paddling, spanking)
- Role play of almost every variety (Examples: age play, kidnapping scenes, interrogation scenes, superhero scenes, taboo; boss/secretary, doctor/patient, exes, maid/employer, neighbors, officer/soldier, police officer/ suspect, student/teacher, spouses)
- Seduction scenes
- Sensation play
- Sploshing/ Wet-and-messy
- Tease and denial/ punishment and reward
- Temperature play (ice and wax)
- Tickle torture
- Violet wand/ neon wand play
- Wax play
Please note that I am emphatically not a masochist. That is, I don’t derive sexual pleasure from physical or emotional pain. Rather, I get off on the psychological aspects of giving up control and pleasing my Dom– which can include taking pain, but if that’s your main interest, we are not a match.
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