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fanwmYou want to know more about me.

I’m told I don’t act how a dominatrix is expected to; I am not cold or callous. I put people new to the scene at ease. I’m also told I make people uncomfortable; my natural intelligence and preternatural knowledge intimidate some men. The way I think, quickly and quietly, makes them nervous. Both of these impressions are accurate: I’m an affable companion and an ineffable manipulatrix.

I’m hardly a femme fatale, though. I don’t enjoy bringing people down but building them up by sharing my extensive understanding of sexuality. I can’t tell you with a straight face, out of scene, that you are pathetic for wanting to lick my feet when I prefer discussing theories of fetishism from the Freudian to the neurological.  I have an undergraduate degree in gender and sexuality studies and a graduate degree in a mental health field, a wide range of queer and kinky friends, a personal penchant for BDSM and experimentation, and a drive to teach and to learn about these passions that make us peculiarly human. I’m also a writer and a performer. Professional domination is a combination of my impulses to understand and to express.

I’ve worked hard to make it so. This is my seventh year as a BDSM provider, and I am now in a place where I can prioritize my desire for exciting scenes and compatible scene partners. My preferences have nothing to do with experience level, race, gender, (dis)ability, religion or age (provided you are at least 21!) but hinge on kindness and courtesy, curiosity about kink, and a commitment to exploring the darker side of desire in a conscientious way.

I have a particular fondness for those just acknowledging their submissive desires; for fetishists with specific requests; for veteran Daddy Doms, sensation players, and rope tops in need of an eager bottom; for long-time role-players who want to take their scenes to another level; and for experienced submissives who want to explore the psychological and sensate intricacies of pain and restraint instead of merely enduring them.

If you’d like to know more, keep clicking through the photos on the home page, or read what others have to say about me.  If you’d like to see more, check out my gallery of recent photos here. And if you’re wondering what I’m like in action, my fan site has 100 clips and counting that show me engaging in a range of roles and fetishes.

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