Sache ‘Savoir Faire’

Many providers take the time to write behavioral guides for their clients. I wanted to lay out rules of engagement for both of us instead. This way, I can be confident you’ll treat me well, and you’ll know what to expect from me in return. Our time together will be so much better when we both agree on these points.

Regarding Relationship Boundaries: Our sessions will be emotionally and erotically intense, but it’s important that we both remember the professional limitations of our relationship and act accordingly.
Regarding Consent:  Because our relationship is professional, we don’t have the implicit consent that most romantic or sexual partners do. It’s therefore important that we get explicit consent from each other. This usually takes the form of pre-session negotiations. If, during the course of our time together, either of us would like to try something we haven’t discussed, it’s important to talk about it first. If either of us wants to revoke consent, we can use the safeword ‘red.’
Regarding Personal Questions and Comments: I love getting to know a new playmate, and I hope you’ll want to get to know me, too. The professional nature of our relationship means certain topics are off-limit, though.  I promise never to ask you about your family life or make rude comments about your body (unless you’re into that!) and I ask that you show me the same courtesy.
Regarding Discretion: I take all pains to protect your privacy and will never mention you to others. You may give me word-of-mouth publicity, but if you see me outside of an appointment, I ask that you pretend you don’t know me. I will do the same for you.
Regarding Hygiene: I am always freshly showered for our sessions, and it’s important for you to be as well. If it’s been more than a few hours since you’ve washed up– if, for example, you’re coming from work after a long day– you can arrive a few minutes early to use the shower. If you’re in a rush, I always have baby wipes and breath mints on hand.
Regarding Reviews and References: Reputations are of great worth in the BDSM scene. I will therefore try to talk to you before giving you a poor reference (unless you’ve been abusive, in which case I will cut off contact.) In return, I ask that you try to talk to me before giving me a poor review (unless your complaint is about something that is out of my control.)
Regarding Timeliness: It’s crucial that we both arrive on time. I like to show up extra early, and you may arrive a little early as well. If we’re meeting in a commercial dungeon, you can come up to ten minutes beforehand. If we’re having a rendezvous at the private apartment, showing up five minutes early is best. Do contact me if you’re running late, so that I know you’re on your way!
Regarding Tips and Gifts: I never ask for tips or gifts, and since I work independently, neither is expected. Generosity will always endear you, though, and if you’ve had a fantastic time, do let me know with your largesse.

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