My favorite activities as a Domme are as follows:

• Basic bondage (cuffs, stocks, rope)
• Body worship (feet, hair, strap-on)
• CBT (particularly bondage, kicking, stepping, clothes pins, and wartenberg wheel)
• Dirty talk
• Domestic discipline
• Electrified paddle
• Embarrassment and humiliation
• Fear play and head games (esp. blackmail, knives)
• Fetishism (everything from feet and latex to the more esoteric fetishes like can crushing and balloon popping)
• Financial domination
• Games and predicaments
• Impact play (particularly caning and paddling)
• JOI
• Medical scenes of all sorts
• Mummification
• NT (particularly clamps , pinching, and string bondage)
• Role play of almost every variety (Examples: age play, kidnapping scenes, interrogation scenes, superhero scenes, taboo; boss/secretary, doctor/patient, exes, maid/employer, neighbors, officer/soldier, police officer/ suspect, student/teacher, spouses)
• Seduction scenes
• Sensation play
• Sensory deprivation
• Sissy training
• Sploshing/ Wet-and-messy
• Tease and denial/ punishment and reward
• Temperature play (ice, hair dryer, mentholatums, wax)
• Violet/ neon wand play
• Wax play 

Please note that I am emphatically not a sadist. That is, I don’t derive sexual pleasure from inflicting physical or emotional pain. Rather, I get off on the psychological aspects of power and control– which can absolutely include inflicting pain, but if pain is your main interest, we are not a match.

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