Dominant Activities

My favorite activities as a Domme are as follows:

  • Basic bondage (cuffs, stocks, rope)
  • Body worship (feet, hair, strap-on)
  • CBT (particularly bondage, kicking, stepping, clothes pins, and wartenberg wheel)
  • Dirty talk
  • Domestic discipline
  • Electrified paddle
  • Embarrassment and humiliation
  • Fear play and head games (esp. blackmail, knives)
  • Fetishism (everything from feet and latex to the more esoteric fetishes like can crushing and balloon popping)
  • Financial domination
  • Games and predicaments
  • Impact play (particularly caning and paddling)
  • JOI
  • Medical scenes of all sorts
  • Mummification
  • NT (particularly clamps , pinching, and string bondage)
  • Role play of almost every variety (Examples: age play, kidnapping scenes, interrogation scenes, superhero scenes, taboo; boss/secretary, doctor/patient, exes, maid/employer, neighbors, officer/soldier, police officer/ suspect, student/teacher, spouses)
  • Seduction scenes
  • Sensation play
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Sissy training
  • Sploshing/ Wet-and-messy
  • Tease and denial/ punishment and reward
  • Temperature play (ice, hair dryer, mentholatums, wax)
  • Violet/ neon wand play
  • Wax play 

Please note that I am emphatically not a sadist. That is, I don’t derive sexual pleasure from inflicting physical or emotional pain. Rather, I get off on the psychological aspects of power and control– which can absolutely include inflicting pain, but if pain is your main interest, we are not a match.

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