My favorite activities as a Domme are as follows:
- Basic bondage (cuffs, stocks, rope)
- Body worship (feet, hair, strap-on)
- CBT (particularly bondage, kicking, stepping, clothes pins, and wartenberg wheel)
- Dirty talk
- Domestic discipline
- Electrified paddle
- Embarrassment and humiliation
- Fear play and head games (esp. blackmail, knives)
- Fetishism (everything from feet and latex to the more esoteric fetishes like can crushing and balloon popping)
- Financial domination
- Games and predicaments
- Impact play (particularly caning and paddling)
- JOI
- Medical scenes of all sorts
- Mummification
- NT (particularly clamps , pinching, and string bondage)
- Role play of almost every variety (Examples: age play, kidnapping scenes, interrogation scenes, superhero scenes, taboo; boss/secretary, doctor/patient, exes, maid/employer, neighbors, officer/soldier, police officer/ suspect, student/teacher, spouses)
- Seduction scenes
- Sensation play
- Sensory deprivation
- Sissy training
- Sploshing/ Wet-and-messy
- Tease and denial/ punishment and reward
- Temperature play (ice, hair dryer, mentholatums, wax)
- Violet/ neon wand play
- Wax play
Please note that I am emphatically not a sadist. That is, I don’t derive sexual pleasure from inflicting physical or emotional pain. Rather, I get off on the psychological aspects of power and control– which can absolutely include inflicting pain, but if pain is your main interest, we are not a match.
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